I really liked this post by @spiritvexer and, after getting her yes, decided to make my own version of it.
Some of these are better for companions/already befriended spirits, but hopefully these can help strengthen your and your spirit friend’s bond and in some way spark interesting conversations. 💗Disclaimers: 1. Remember to only bring up/ask things that are comfortable for the spirit.
2. This is a long post.
Questions
- What is something that makes you exceptionally happy?
- What is something you are proud of?
- What’s your career?
- What are some pet peeves you have?
- Have you worked with Humans before? In what ways? Often?
- What is your favourite [Weather, Colour, Food, Place, etc.]?
- Are you more of an extrovert, introvert, or ambivert?
- What music do you enjoy?
- Have you visited [place] before? Alternatively: Do you enjoy to travel and/or do it a lot?
- What topics do you like to talk/learn about?
- Is there a problem/issue I could help you with?
- What do you think about a lot lately?
- What are your current goals?
- How do you like to be treated/nurtured/cared for when you’re sad/angry/in a bad mood/sick?
- Are there any species’ you don’t get along with?
- WHat is a piece of advice/wisdom that you have/that really stuck with you?
- What do you think about Humans?
- How do you think about [a thing/activity/place/… you enjoy] and would you like to do it with me/go there some time?
- Do you have any nicknames that I can call you?
- Do you have any nicknames for me?
- Is there something you would like to know more about humans/our society/our culture/etc ?
- What’s your favourite way of relaxing and winding down?
- Do you have any siblings? Pets? Children?
- Is there anything about me that you have a piece of advice for?
- Are you okay with close contact (e.g. hugging, cuddling, holding hands)?
- How do you feel about [someone you both know]?
- Do you have any allergies?
- Why did you choose me? [for companions met through a shop]
- What is something about me that you like a lot?
- What is something about me that you don’t like?
- How can I make you laugh?
- What makes you feel most loved?
- What is something you wish people would stop doing?
- What, in your eyes, is the purpose/reason for/of life?
Conversation Prompts
- Tell me about something you are passionate about.
- Tell me about some of your ideologies/philosophies.
- Tell me a bit about your culture/past/species/… .
- Tell me a joke.
- Tell me about a funny/cute/happy memory.
- Tell me about your crush/partner/friend/family.
- Rant to me about something.
- Teach me a cool fact/thing (that you recently learned).
- Tell me about some of your likes.
- Show me something that is special for/in your society/species.
Hopefully some of these helped you get closer to a spirit friend.
Feel free to add on more!