Intimacy do not always mean sex…

jontaenjoli:

thetrillest-tings:

fiercerain:

underboss51:

Wash her hair for her

Help her shave

Cook a meal together

Write her a letter… about her(no actually write it)

Shower together (or bath)

Body rubs and massages work well (especially her feet and booty)😉

When she’s removing polish from her fingers…grab a cotton ball and remove the polish from her toes

After she showers…meet her with a dry towel and dry her off

When she’s dry rub her down with coconut oil(or whatever she prefers…

TALK: about her day…her goal…her opinions…

Listen to her…

Form secret code words that only you and her will understand if said publicly

Build memories together….

JUST A FEW SUGGESTIONS….Reblog if you have some suggestions to add.

– Protect her
– help her oil/grease her scalp
– paint her a picture on computer paper with the $2 watercolor paints from walmart
– remind her to take her medication
– comfort her if she has an anxiety or panic attack
– be honest
– Do NOT lie to her
– bring her snacks when she’s on her period
– help her do her laundry
– support her dreams & aspirations

🙏🏾

Real ones.