I’ve had an INCREDIBLY stressful weekend, so this morning, I decided to make a spread that wasn’t so much about what you should do or what you NEED to do or even what you should worry about… but what you shouldn’t worry about. Where you can relax.
relax about this – here’s a reminder of something you don’t need to worry about. If it’s something that looks negative, it’s a problem you don’t have, no matter what your anxieties might say.
let go of this – here’s something you’ve been holding onto and honestly? you can let it go; for negative cards, this is a pain you’ve held onto that is no longer serving you
settle into this – here’s something you’ve been hesitant to accept as true? you can accept it; for negative cards, this is a reality it’s not the time to fight
feel good about this – sometimes, we’re hesitant to appreciate something for fear that it might go away or that it isn’t real: go ahead and feel good about it; if this is a negative card, consider this a problem you don’t have or something you’ve conquered
see the good in this – peace isn’t when everything is perfect: see the good in this position and, if it’s a negative card, try and see the good to be found there and focus on that
have faith in this – sometimes, when we’re stressed, it can feel like nothing is dependable, like nothing will go right, like we can’t believe or hope for anything: here, have faith a little, be positive; if it’s a negative card, have faith that you’ll find your way through it
When you’re a couple that’s used to spending all your time together and suddenly that togetherness is disrupted by a situation that physically separates you, it can be tough to make that transition and get through it.
People have different needs, and different ways of coping. It can be a huge advantage to understand what your partner needs when things get tough, and naturally, people will change and grow as they spend time apart and it can be strange to reunite and find that you have to get to know this person you once knew so intimately again. To help ease some of that, here’s a very simple spread for couples in long distance relationships.
1. What you need
2. What your partner needs
3. How to stay connected over the distance.
Good luck to all the couples dealing with distance! Stay strong!
2. The first step you need to take into the new year.
3. What sort of obstacles you will face this year.
4. Where you are going, or who you’ll be at the end of the year.
This spread is meant to help you start your personal growth in the new year. It is not a prediction but a possible forecast with how things are for you right now. This is also the first spread I’ve made myself and I used it earlier and it worked really well! I hope you have luck with this one too, and if you want a reading send me a message!
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